All going along swimmingly with the form mail.
I have one other odd need. I want to be able to send a formmail mesage if there is (for example) a database crash. That I can and have done. All I want to do now is to avoid the success or failure etc messages coming back to the user in those circumstances. (I will generate an html text message instead).
Can I do that? If I leave out my own templates (good_url etc) then I get your defaults.