Hi,
Yes, I know you're right about some spammers not bothering to spoof referrer.
The problem is that referrer checks also break things.
We've come across some servers that don't pass the referrer through to PHP.
Also, some people's browsers don't pass it through and some PC's have "security" software installed to block this information.
Overall, we think it's much more trouble than it's worth.
We're more interested in automated ways of preventing spam attacks, such as those already built into FormMail.
From the feedback we've got, people can get virtually zero spam without using Captcha by using the other anti-spam features in FormMail.
If someone is getting successfully attacked by a bot while using these features, then we really want to see the details so we can analyze the problem and solve it.
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